"Love Actually"

We all share one common thing in life, we want to be loved. So what if we loved everyone around us what would happen?

If karma does exist (which, I believe does), then what goes around must come around.

One of my best friends recently helped me move a piece of furniture to my apartment. She brought someone along who could help me. I thanked both of them a few times (maybe too many) and told them how much I appreciated their kind gesture.

Later on she told me that the guy who helped me told her, quote “he seems like a really nice guy”. When she told me that I told her, “ah thats great” (karma). So the thing is, what if we could be nicer and more patient in our lives, could we make someone’s day?

My assumption is YES, we could. Now imagine we applied this to our relationships (family, friends, Spouses), could we get the love we are looking for? My assumption once again is YES. YES and YES.

So imagine you have a relationship with someone, and thought “lets make it better” . Could you apply a few changes to get the love you truly deserve? YES again (seems to be my favorite word today).

You see know one is perfect, and imperfections are beautiful. If we would be perfect we would be like robots, and we are not robots. We are humans. We can make mistakes and its ok to make mistakes. We can have a feud and its ok to have a misunderstanding occasionally, but really, if we keep fighting over the same thing again and again, we will never resolve anything.

We mourn when someone passes away, so why not enjoy them today? We lose our patience easily, so why cant we try to accept some ones ways? We sometimes accuse people of everything, when sometimes we are at fault. Many an occasion we judge people because it makes us feel better, Who are we to judge anyway? Only God can judge us.

John Lennon was right when he said “Imagine all the people living for today”. Thats it. Today is better than yesterday. Today is better then tomorrow.

Some people find it harder to communicate to each other, this could have been something they attained from their childhood. So if I was brought up in a certain way and I find it hard to communicate to others, can I change my communication habits? YES you can.

We all have a heart of gold inside us and we need to bring it to the forefront of our lives. Greatness, Respect and Wisdom come with Love.

So today, make a difference, make someone’s day, reach out and touch someone’s heart. Create a loving template which you can use in your daily lives. Love your neighbor like your self and in return karma, will come knocking at your door, cause it’s “Love Actually”

If you have any feedback or suggestions please feel free to message me.
Keep Well and have a wonderful and loving day ;)

Claude Camilleri
Life Coach and NLP Practitioner

Written by Claude Camilleri,
Master NLP Practitioner, Malta
founder of Successlodge
www.successlodge.com